When Daniel’s best friend offered us his car and apartment while he was overseas we jumped at the chance to spend 10 days in inner-city Melbourne. Actually, perhaps we didn’t jump. I ummed and ahhed and declared it too indulgent considering we had just returned from Tasmania. But then I checked the flights and when I realised we could fly return for $300 I booked then and there.

Melbourne is a glorious city; European-inspired and wonderfully rustic and carefree. Regarded as Australia’s coffee capital it serves the very best blends in the coolest of chic, urban warehouses. But, where there is coffee there is cake. Decadent cakes became a daily ritual for us – the meringue cupcake at Brother Baba Budan was a definite winner.

We loved walking the golden leafy streets of an afternoon, running through piles of leaves before dropping into the gourmet grocer for dinner supplies. Daniel drove us around his old neighbourhoods, reminiscing about bike rides, the school tram ride and that black eye.

Busy city days were interspersed with lazy, mosey-about days where we wandered through the grounds of Ceres and Collingwood Children’s Farm (more on that later). There were moments, as there always are with children, when the tiredness that comes with travelling became a little overwhelming. In those times we dropped everything and headed back to the apartment, thankful for our own kitchen and a comfortable bed.

Melbourne is a city abound with small, quirky cafes and narrow laneways that aren’t overly suited to prams and babies. And so here is my top-ten list of things to do in inner-city Melbourne (and it’s child friendly!)

• A family portrait in the photo booth outside Flinder’s Street Station (there’s one on Chapel Street too)
• A wander through the famous Hosier Lane with its abundance of street art and graffiti (it’s opposite Federation Square where there’s clean toilets and great baby change facilities)
• A coffee at Degraves Espresso in Degraves Street – the bustling atmosphere makes it perfect for people watching and the staff are young, attentive and a rather stylish set. The coffee is amazing and the risotto is so so good.
• Take your children to The Little Bookroom (just down the lane from Degraves). It has the best and most colourful selection of children’s books. Che’s love affair with Tin Tin began there and he read his comic in every single cafe we visited.
• For much-needed Muma indulgence pop into the Aesop store on Flinders Lane. It’s made from cardboard – quite literally the walls and shelves are made from cardboard – Che was in awe. While he marvelled I rubbed Resurrection Aromatique Hand Balm into my palms – a bit of peace amidst city busyness.
• Head to Pelligrini’s on Bourke St (recently featured on The Selby – thanks for the link Mandy). Regarded as a Melbourne institution, the 50-plus-year-old restaurant serves the very best Watermelon Granita (the perfect afternoon pick-me-up). Apparently their food is good too but they only have seating at the bar and it just wasn’t suitable for us. There’s also a gorgeous heart in the lane next door.
• If you’re a coffee lover you must take a sip of the Seven Seeds brew. Brother Baba Budan is their inner-city cafe but it’s teeny-tiny (seats about 10) and although its aesthetic is to-die-for it just isn’t very practical with children and a pram (but because I’m persistent I parked a sleeping Poet in the corner and Daniel, Che and I had a rather luscious morning tea there – coffee pictured above!). For a more spacious and equally wonderful coffee experience head to Seven Seeds in the north of the city (where they roast the beans). Daniel had an amazing wagyu burger there and Che was delighted with googey eggs and toast soldiers. As for the crowd – wow, if ever there was a popular coffee spot for Melbourne’s stylish ones this is it.
• It’s completely cliche but I’m going to list it anyway – a city-circle tram ride.
• The Kids Corner at the National Gallery of Victoria is wonderful.  It’s a big, clean, intriguing space that kept Che entertained for ages. Daniel and I got to sit back and relax and Poet was happy to crawl around and peek into baby-height mirrors. It was an absolute relief to escape the hustle and bustle of the city and Poet was so grateful to get out of the pram/sling.
•  A trip to Melbourne is not complete until you wander through the famous Block and Royal arcades. Treat yourself to the best chocolate at Haigh’s or Koko Black