5 ways to work effectively from home
The school term creates a strict 5-day-a-week routine on the household and it’s one I’ve learned to embrace as a work-from-home mum.
The pace of my early motherhood years was rhythmic; we didn’t need to be anywhere at any time so we floated from one activity to the next. At the time it worked wonderfully for us; I was teaching a few yoga classes a week, occasionally blogging and generally just relishing in new motherhood. It was beautiful in theory but not conducive to productivity.
When Che was three I started working from home and productivity was necessary. I may have grieved the loss of spontaneous days when he started school but over the years I’ve discovered that the 9-3 school day creates a very rigid time frame for me to work. Some may find this rigidity to be stifling but I’m not ashamed to admit that it suits me. In fact, I’m not sure how I would work without it.
My work load has increased significantly over the past year (professionally and domestically) – subsequently I’ve had to be pretty strict with my time and how I use it. In the process I’ve accepted that I’m not a Type-A highly organised person. But with realisation comes necessary change and I’ve discovered a few ways to get the work done without inflicting too much pressure on myself or the family.
Here’s how I juggle work and motherhood and manage to make deadline:
seize free time
Regardless of whether it’s 10 minutes or one whole, glorious hour, I leave everything else behind and attempt to get some words on the page. In these instances I’m really aware of my mind and my mouse wandering so I literally have to repeat “focus, focus, focus” to ensure I stay on task. Spontaneous work time, just like scheduled work time, requires a very clear goal so I’ll choose one task and work on it till it’s complete (or till my time is up). It’s stolen time used productively….small steps towards completion.
done is better than good
Elizabeth Gilbert completely shifted my mindset with her simple yet profound advice in Big Magic. Perfectionism is such an unrealistic goal, especially for creative mothers working from home. Thinking back over the past few years I spent far too much time and energy (and angst!) attempting to create perfection with every story and photo. In retrospect my lofty goals inhibited an efficient work practise. Now I just get the words down or the photo edited and while I care greatly about the flow of the sentences and the colour grade, I prefer (for my own wellbeing and sanity) to just. get. it. done!
stay on top of emails and paperwork
The behind-the-scenes of working from home needs to be addressed regularly so you can maintain some semblance of organisation. Knowing the paperwork is done, so to speak, allows you to get on with work with a clear head (I’m really good at ignoring the pile of dishes that sit solemnly beside the sink). I set aside twenty minutes every day to send emails and delete the junk. Every few months I make sure I go through my email subscriptions with a fine tooth comb – newsletters that appear in my inbox but never get opened are just time wasters (for fast deleting go visit unroll.me). Because I work as a freelancer I also need to keep my invoices and receipts in order – I do this once a week.
start your day productively
a slow start can often mean little progress (speaking from experience). I find that an early morning walk is the best way for me to start my working day. I push the pram with gusto and spend the forty minutes of quiet running through my to-do list, sprouting story ideas and thinking ahead for the week. If I can cross exercise off my list by 7:30am I’m rearing to get everything else done, too. For me, exercise creates mental space – I’m a lot less likely to be wracked by indecision, angst or doubt if I exercise before I create.
accept that balance is not always attainable (but juggling is possible)
I schedule specific work time into my week but it’s not always enough (the freelance gig is often a drought/flood scenario). When I’m swamped with work I’ve learned to accept that the house will turn to chaos – there’s just no other way around it. It’s just not possible for me to stay on top of housework and look after the children and meet all the deadlines. So, messy house = busy work week, relatively clean house = quiet work week. Sometimes I’ll type while holding a baby and answering pre-schooler questions, at other times I’ll hide in the laundry just to get the urgent editorial done. Just like I schedule work time I also schedule down time. Working from home means the line between work and home is very, very blurry – indecipherable, even. Scheduling downtime is essential to maintaining some distinction between work and play.
Dear Jodi. Thank you for this. I would love to know how you balance finding time for your work and taking care of Percy? Do you plan on having him at home until the age of 3 like Che and Poet?
My 1.5 year old son just started daycare, only for 3-4 (half) days a week, so that I can keep up with my studies. So fare I have manages to jungle both, but with Kai only sleeping 1 hour a day now, I can't get much done! I feel completely torn as my son would much rather be at home with me or his dad, and of course I would too – but at the same time I feel as I need to take some time for myself to get on with my career. How do you do it?! You're such an inspiration!
Hi Anna,
Yes, Percy will be at home till he's 3. I suppose over the years I've become used to writing with a baby at my feet. I also utilise every single nap time and when Daniel is home I have help. Sometimes I'll work in the early morning and at other times I work at night. Like I said, it's a juggle and no two days are the same x
Thank you for your insights! I could be so much better at seizing free moments, but for me choosing "done" over "good" would be unprofessional if not impossible. As a freelance editor, perfectionism IS my job. With a four-month-old at home, I recently realized I needed to put my editing on hold. I appreciate your great list of guidelines, though, which I can apply when working from home once again becomes realistic for me.
Ah, I understand! But sometimes I think my idea of perfect is a little obsessive; letting go of my desire to create the very best with everything I do has been really freeing. Subsequently I write more which, in turn, has improved my work. For a while there my lofty goals were a bit debilitating and that needed to change. Enjoy your baby – it's such a precious time (hard, but precious) x
Thank you! I just dropped of Kai at daycare, it's the most unnatural feeling and none of us are happy about. Definitely inspiring that you manage to juggle – maybe I could do it to?! Staying up writing at night sounds brutal when your (read: my) baby is a bad sleeper…
Sorry wrong reply! 😉
Jodi, that totally makes sense to me. 🙂
Great advice. With any luck I'll be a stay at home/ working mama next year too so this was really interesting to read. Something I am curious about is how DO you fit housework in? You've done many great posts on decluttering and simplicity (which I have read over many times and taken to heart) but do you also have clever tips on keeping the home in a semi reasonable state when there are so many other things on? Ha ha a typical question from somebody still trying to get a grip on this whole housewife business (you'd think after 3 years I would have figured it out by now!)
Ah my day goes to complete shit if I don't get a head start on it, learned that the hard way!
Thank you for this – I have just been (kindly) informed my thesis is in need of some (lots of) rewriting. I have 2 weeks to do it. This could not have come at a better time! I walk for 30 mins every morning, it really gets me up and going too 🙂
I work from home too except that my time is very structured as I work as a call centre staff member. But I still like to get up and get ready for work with a shower and get dressed rather than stay in PJ's so that I am in the work mindset. Working from home is allowing me to have a lot more free time and use it to study.